Sunday, September 6, 2009

Match point Social service is my idea guys hooking? Communications expert tells you how complicated Sushma Gaekwad to play the game right

Established as a friend to see them scour the Internet or 'right' to wait to come waltzing through a great option. But beware, this kind of expression seems not always end with you can make a toast at their wedding. Sushma Gaekwad Communication and beauty expert, tells us how to be a successful match-maker.
Do not ask, force
Everyone loves engagement. After all, who would not take credit for the blissfully happy couple? The first thing the two parties is prohibited. They can be ready to set up? Or they will be angered by their invasion? "If they are your friends," Sushma says laughingly, "until they agree you can make." But even if one does not make one diplomat suggested. If one person in question is a personal friend, who's got close to ask / her idea. And if they refused to stop pushing.
You want to see more desperation from a friend! "It's important for you not to go overboard with strangers., Sushma warned Remember that your perception is also at stake."
Do not lie
Before you can meet teams, Sushma say you talk to your friends to make a personal basis. She says, "Let some good qualities". They point out things in common, and they steer away from sensitive areas. Same time, it is foolish to make a completely rosy picture. , Sushma shows "Choose your words correctly, especially when talking about the bad character." Instead she's saying, "A bad thinking" you might say, "low tolerance for the slowdown, so better be on time."
NO blind date
Before you set up a date with both teams, Sushma talk to them and give the opportunity to know each other's suggestions. If you are not comfortable sharing the phone number outside the group can make them a part of. They also befriend each other on social networking sites can.
A place for fixing and being the first few meetings there is also matchmaker fee is included in the list. , Sushma says, "Blind Date for Casual daters is fine, but if your friends like you are serious." , Sushma says, "where they take some space for a ten minute window is communication." That proper black horse or a photo exhibition, which is enough room for dialogue with the hold their advantage. Avoid meeting just a coffee place, as this will put more pressure on the conversation, leading to an uneasy silence. Movies, Music and Music a strict, no, because they will leave no chance to talk. Have more friends and plan "a group activity, such as bowling, Sushma clear out the initial awkwardness," says.
They provide time
When the lovebirds is growing, it's time to fly them. , Sushma says, "Give them together for only two consecutive dates." Post that, one kebab mein haddi - to leave the couple is not to take it forward. She says, "Not my will power not to see them together." If you do this one a little icky relationship has also been forced infiltration. They discover each other and decide if it is worth your time.
When things fail
Once on a full relationship embarks, out of the way down. Remember that your fights and issues is very little to do with you. In Indian culture, we easily get the burden.
, Sushma says, "most people go away from responsibility." Intervention "if you think you have a difference, or is asked to." Any point should you take sides or defend any one party.
And finally, if things do not work out, do not judge. , Sushma finished "The friendship was with every person you should not change."

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